The Age of Reason and Passion, according to Rousseau is between the ages of 15 and 20 years… I admit to being past that age for a couple of years, but have I really reached that point when one is certain of controlling and effectively channeling one´s passions and acting with reason? Not quite, that is my honest answer, I have not yet found a balance within myself… For a long time I refused to grow up, to accept the world around me, I wanted to be free of responsibility, of pain, of pressure; however, that bubble soon pops and the weight of things falls on us whether we want it or not. There is no room for irresponsibility, for hedonism; suffering is part of life as is happiness, joy, euphoria, these are the ups and downs of life. In reality, if we look at things in perspective, what we once thought might be the worst situation, the saddest scenario, the most difficult obstacle, might be close to nothing compared to what others go through in their daily life, we don´t choose when or where we are born, but we shape and mold the life we want… and if what we have is not satisfying enough, it´s a clear sign not of being unsatisfied, but rather a warning that we should strive for more, for life is really an ever constant change, an ascension to something higher, an almost unattainable perfection.
Every so often, I admit to going through phases of negative, pessimistic, fatalistic crisis… days when I can no longer stand the world around me, as if my surroundings were a foggy and unclear obscurity with no solid ground to walk on… how can I make my way back to the light of reason, intellect, and peace? Sometimes all it takes is a shift of thoughts, an evening walk, or sitting up all night thinking, what I´m a doing wrong that makes me feel so terribly disoriented? Salaat, reading the Qur’an helps, but sometimes we have to reach deeper within ourselves, and into our soul, not so much our mind, but that transparent, intangible, and almost magic part of us… and there it may lie, the root of the trouble, the answer, or at least a hint of it…
I write this, for as I was looking through old articles and posts, some from nearly two or more years ago, I realize I rarely talk of myself as a real person, with faults, problems, fears and weaknesses… I tend to only want to see what I like, what pleases me, what fits in my ideal of what I want the world to be, but perhaps it`s a sign of immaturity, therefore, I`d like to propose a goal for what remains of this year and the time to come, to grow up, mature, to no longer be afraid of the truth, for only by accepting it can change be possible….